Muslim wedding attire for the bride, groom and guests

There is no single Islamic wedding outfit. The principle is modesty, and within that you can wear the traditions of your culture. Here is a practical guide for each role. Scholars differ on some details, so ask a scholar you trust about your own situation.

The bride

Choose a dress that covers the awrah as you observe it, loose enough to be modest, with sleeves and a high neckline. Many brides pair it with an elegant hijab or veil. White, ivory, red, gold and jewel tones are all common, depending on culture. Think about the nikah (smaller, more modest) and the walima (grander) as two outfits if you wish.

The groom

A suit, sherwani, thobe or kurta all work. Scholars say men should avoid silk and gold jewellery. Clean, well-fitted and modest is the goal.

Guests

• Women: loose clothing, sleeves, longer hem, scarf if you wear one, or follow the family’s note.
• Men: smart trousers and shirt, or traditional dress.
• Follow the dress code on the invitation.

Hair, makeup and photography

Keep makeup natural if you plan to be photographed in mixed company, and agree boundaries with your photographer early. Some families use a female photographer for the bride’s side.

Avoid

• Transparent or tight clothing
• Imitating non-Muslim styles that clash with modesty
• Spending beyond your means to impress

See what to wear to a nikah.

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