What is ijab and qabul in a nikah?
Ijab and qabul are the offer and acceptance at the heart of the nikah. Without them clearly stated, the marriage contract is not complete. Here is what they mean, who says them and the usual questions. Scholars differ on some details, so ask a scholar you trust about your own situation.
The meaning
Ijab (offer) comes from the bride or her wali. Qabul (acceptance) comes from the groom. They are said clearly, in the same sitting, in front of witnesses.
Who says what
- The bride’s wali or the bride offers: “I give you in marriage…”
- The groom replies: “I accept…”
See nikah vows and wording for examples.
Do both sides have to be present?
Many scholars accept a representative (wakil) where needed, and online or remote nikahs raise further questions. See is an online nikah valid?.
What else is needed?
Consent, witnesses and mahr. See nikah conditions in Islam.
Zawaj is a Muslim marriage app built around nikah: written proposals instead of swiping, a Chaperone/Wali feature so family can be involved, and calls only once a proposal is accepted. It is free to join on iOS and Android.
Frequently asked questions
What does ijab and qabul mean?
Ijab is the offer and qabul is the acceptance of the marriage contract.
Is ijab and qabul compulsory?
Yes. It is the core of the nikah contract.
Can ijab and qabul be in English?
Yes, in any language the parties understand.
Can someone say it on my behalf?
Many scholars allow a representative in certain cases. Ask your imam.
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