The nikah khutbah: what is said at a Muslim wedding

Before the offer and acceptance, an imam or a respected guest often gives a short sermon. This guide explains what it contains and how it fits into the ceremony. Scholars differ on some details, so ask a scholar you trust about your own situation.

What is the khutbat al-haajah?

The khutbah usually opens with praise of Allah and a prayer upon the Prophet ﷺ, then recites three Quran verses on taqwa and fairness: 3:102, 4:1 and 33:70–71. It is a customary opening reported in the Sunnah.

What follows

The speaker then gives a short reminder about marriage: sincerity, kindness, rights and responsibilities, and mercy between spouses. It often closes with dua for the couple.

Is it required for a valid nikah?

It is recommended and widely practised, but the nikah is valid through the offer and acceptance in front of witnesses. See what is ijab and qabul? and nikah conditions.

Who gives it, and how long?

Usually the imam or an elder, and it is typically five to ten minutes. In a smaller nikah, a family member can give a short khutbah.

A simple way to keep it meaningful

Ask the imam to include a few reminders about kindness and communication, and to keep it in a language the guests understand. See nikah vows and wording.

Zawaj is a Muslim marriage app built around nikah: written proposals instead of swiping, a Chaperone/Wali feature so family can be involved, and calls only once a proposal is accepted. It is free to join on iOS and Android.

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