Can a Muslim woman take her husband’s name?
Many Muslim women ask whether they should change their surname after marriage. The traditional view is that a woman keeps her own family name, while legal and social use of a husband’s surname is a matter of custom. Scholars differ on some details, so ask a scholar you trust about your own situation.
The traditional view
In Islam a person is attributed to their father. The Quran says: “Call them by [the names of] their fathers” (33:5). Because of this, many scholars say a woman keeps her family name after marriage, as was the practice among the early Muslim women.
Using a husband’s surname for practical reasons
Many scholars permit using a husband’s surname socially or on forms as a convenience, so long as the person does not claim to be the child of someone other than her father. Others advise keeping her own name where possible. Views differ.
Legal name changes
In the UK and many countries you can keep your name, take your spouse’s or combine them. A change usually needs your marriage certificate, which means a civil registration. See are Muslim marriages legal in the UK?.
Children’s names
Children are attributed to their father in the traditional view.
Discuss it before nikah
Raise it among your expectations before marriage. See questions to ask before agreeing.
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Frequently asked questions
Do Muslim women change their name after marriage?
Practice varies. The traditional view is to keep the family name, and many women use their husband’s surname for practical reasons.
Is it haram to take your husband’s last name?
Many scholars allow it as a practical custom. Others prefer keeping your own name. Ask a scholar you trust.
Can I keep my maiden name legally in the UK?
Yes. You are not required to change your name after marriage.
What name do the children take?
In the traditional view, the father’s name.
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